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Expat Stories

Culture shock, driving lessons gone wrong, first trips to the post office—real expats share the honest, unpolished stories of what living in Indonesia is really like.

Every expat’s journey to Indonesia looks a little different. This page is a collection of expat stories shared by real members of our community — foreigners who have lived in, worked in, or relocated to Indonesia and were generous enough to write about it. Some describe the culture shock of their very first weeks in Jakarta, others reflect on learning to drive on Indonesian roads, navigating the post office, buying a car, or simply adjusting to daily life far from home. Whatever the topic, these expat experiences offer a personal, honest window into what living in Indonesia is actually like, beyond the practical guides and relocation checklists you’ll find elsewhere on this site.

These stories are contributed pieces, written from the author’s own point of view, so they reflect one person’s experience rather than official advice — but that’s exactly what makes them worth reading. Whether you’re a newly arrived expat trying to make sense of your first year in Indonesia or a long-time resident who still remembers what it felt like to land here for the first time, we think there’s something valuable in hearing how others found their footing. If you have your own story about life as an expat in Indonesia — a memorable first impression, a lesson learned the hard way, or an experience that shaped how you see the country — we’d love to hear it. Get in touch with us, and we’ll gladly review your submission and, in most cases, share it here for the rest of the community to enjoy.

Latest Stories

The Expat Wife's Prayer

The Expat Wife’s Prayer

Article Updated on June 24, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article is a humorous expatriate story from an earlier era of international living. Some terminology and attitudes reflect the time in which...

Travel, tow trucks and time-sensitive tribulations - Christmas Holidays in Indonesia

Travel, tow trucks and time-sensitive tribulations – Christmas Holidays in Indonesia

Article Updated on June 19, 2026

Editor’s Note: Road trips across Java and other parts of Indonesia can be a wonderful way to see the country. However, holiday periods such as...

Sexy Jenny and Other Stories

Sexy Jenny and Other Stories

Article Updated on June 11, 2026

Editor’s Note: The anecdotes below were contributed by reader Juerg and reflect personal observations from his time living in Indonesia. While some details have been...

The Thief of BaghdadJakarta

The Thief of Baghdad/Jakarta

Article Updated on June 14, 2026

AFTER three years of living safely in Jakarta, a thief finally succeeded in reminding me that her glorious streets are not always safe. In Menteng,...

Cinderella Stories

Cinderella Stories

Article Updated on June 4, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was first published in The Jakarta Post and reflects observations about a particular group of mixed marriages during the period in...

Don't You Just LOVE It Here

Don’t You Just LOVE It Here?

Article Updated on June 20, 2026

Editor’s Note: This humorous and satirical story reflects one expatriate’s tongue-in-cheek observations of daily life in Indonesia during an earlier period. Household staffing arrangements, workplace...

A Polite Smile for Every Occasion

A Polite Smile for Every Occasion

Article Updated on June 22, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was contributed by reader and long-term Indonesia resident Phillip Turnbull. It reflects his personal observations and humorous experiences during his early...

You May Be A Resident of A Large City in Southeast Asia if ...

You May Be A Resident of A Large City in Southeast Asia if …

Article Updated on June 16, 2026

You now purchase cigarettes singly, not by the pack. On the street you avoid running over cats when previously they were the target. You can...

Servants in Indonesia - AKA household help

Servants in Indonesia – AKA household help

Article Updated on June 10, 2026

Editor’s Note: This light-hearted article reflects the experiences and observations of expatriates living in Indonesia. For practical information on hiring, managing, compensating, and working with...

The Burning Woods Really Freak Me Out!

The Burning Woods Really Freak Me Out!

Article Updated on June 17, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article reflects the author’s personal observations and opinions during a period when Indonesia experienced severe forest and peatland fires that affected air...

The People Behind Living in Indonesia

The People Behind Living in Indonesia

Article Updated on June 5, 2026

Living in Indonesia first went online in 1997, making it one of Indonesia’s longest-running English-language resources for expatriates. What began as a simple idea shared...

Health Clubs: To Be Or Not??

Health Clubs: To Be Or Not??

Article Updated on June 23, 2026

Editor’s Note: This humorous essay by Ida Greenbury reflects Jakarta’s fitness club culture at the time it was originally written. While membership models, facilities, and...

I Spy in East Java - A road game for the trip to Bali

I Spy in East Java – A road game for the trip to Bali

Article Updated on June 21, 2026

Planning to drive from Surabaya to Bali? It’s a great way to see East Java’s changing scenery, from bustling cities and rice fields to volcanoes...

Bali to Remote East Java - A Road Trip

Bali to Remote East Java – A Road Trip

Article Updated on June 2, 2026

Editor’s Note: The following article was contributed by a reader of ExpatOrId. It reflects the author’s personal travel experience during a road trip from Bali...

Dippers in the Bak Mandi

Web Poll: Dippers in the Bak Mandi

Article Updated on June 10, 2026

Editor’s Note: For readers unfamiliar with traditional Indonesian bathrooms, many homes and guesthouses once featured a bak mandi—a large water storage container used for bathing...

Rats In jakarta

Jakarta’s Rats

Article Published on September 5, 2019

I live in Jakarta. It is a huge huge city, teeming with people. People who don’t believe in disposing of things in ways that we...

A Question of Balance

A Question of Balance

Article Updated on July 12, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article reflects one expatriate’s humorous observations of Jakarta during an earlier period of Indonesia’s development. While some scenes and experiences described have...

So You Think You’d Like to Live in Bali

So You Think You’d Like to Live in Bali?

Article Updated on June 1, 2026

Editor’s Note: The following article is a personal reflection contributed by reader Rachel Greaves. The opinions, observations, and experiences expressed are those of the author...

One Day When She Had It Pierced

One Day When She Had It Pierced

Article Updated on June 9, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was written by Aida Greenbury and was originally published in The Jakarta Post in the early 2000s. It reflects the author’s...

The Wrinkled Coconuts

The Wrinkled Coconuts

Article Updated on July 30, 2026

Editor’s Note: Humor often provides a window into how we think about ourselves, and this light-hearted essay explores society’s obsession with youth, beauty, and growing...

Faith was a Girl Who

Faith was a Girl Who …

Article Updated on July 15, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article is a humorous personal story written by Adrian Parke and reflects his own experiences and observations. Anyone living outside their own...

Road Rage Blame it on Adrenaline

Road Rage: Blame it on Adrenaline?

Article Updated on June 25, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was originally written during the late 1990s/early 2000s, when Jakarta’s traffic conditions, policing practices, and road culture were significantly different from...

You Suck When You’re Drunk!

You Suck When You’re Drunk!

Article Updated on July 14, 2026

Do you know that drunk drivers in San Salvador can be punished by death before a firing squad? Anyway, when I was little, probably six...

One Day in the Zoo

One Day in the Zoo

Article Published on June 1, 2018

Editor’s Note: This humorous essay by Aida Greenbury was originally written in the early 2000s and first published in The Jakarta Post. While some references...

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