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Expat Stories

Culture shock, driving lessons gone wrong, first trips to the post office—real expats share the honest, unpolished stories of what living in Indonesia is really like.

Every expat’s journey to Indonesia looks a little different. This page is a collection of expat stories shared by real members of our community — foreigners who have lived in, worked in, or relocated to Indonesia and were generous enough to write about it. Some describe the culture shock of their very first weeks in Jakarta, others reflect on learning to drive on Indonesian roads, navigating the post office, buying a car, or simply adjusting to daily life far from home. Whatever the topic, these expat experiences offer a personal, honest window into what living in Indonesia is actually like, beyond the practical guides and relocation checklists you’ll find elsewhere on this site.

These stories are contributed pieces, written from the author’s own point of view, so they reflect one person’s experience rather than official advice — but that’s exactly what makes them worth reading. Whether you’re a newly arrived expat trying to make sense of your first year in Indonesia or a long-time resident who still remembers what it felt like to land here for the first time, we think there’s something valuable in hearing how others found their footing. If you have your own story about life as an expat in Indonesia — a memorable first impression, a lesson learned the hard way, or an experience that shaped how you see the country — we’d love to hear it. Get in touch with us, and we’ll gladly review your submission and, in most cases, share it here for the rest of the community to enjoy.

Latest Stories

The Good and the Bad Reasons to Live in Indonesia

The Good and the Bad: Reasons to Live in Indonesia

Article Updated on April 15, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was originally written by David Cook and reflects the personal observations and opinions of the author based on his experiences living...

Do You Believe in Magic

Do You Believe in Magic?

Article Updated on March 16, 2026

Editor’s Note This article is a personal account and reflects the observations and experiences of the original author, Wayne Duplessis. The views expressed do not...

A Quiet Afternoon at the Office

A Quiet Afternoon at the Office

Article Updated on April 16, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article, originally written by Gaby Schilders, offers a vivid and personal snapshot of daily life in an Indonesian neighborhood. While written some...

Peculiar Questions

Peculiar Questions

Article Updated on April 15, 2026

Editor’s Note This article was originally written by Aida Greenbury and first published in The Jakarta Post. It is preserved on expat.or.id as a historical...

Don’t Call Me Bule

Don’t Call Me Bule! Or how expatriates experience a word

Article Updated on April 9, 2026

Editor’s Note This article was originally written in 2003 by Anne-Meike Fechter and reflects the personal observations, experiences, and opinions of the author at that...

Coming to Jakarta A Lone Englishman's Experiences

Coming to Jakarta: A Lone Englishman’s Experiences

Article Updated on April 15, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article is a personal, semi-autobiographical account of one expatriate’s early experiences adjusting to life in Jakarta. It reflects the author’s individual observations,...

A Missionary Kid

You Know You’re A Missionary Kid (MK) When…

Article Updated on April 15, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article is shared for entertainment purposes and reflects the personal observations and experiences of expatriates and missionary kids (MKs). While many readers...

Smart, Single and Wealthy

Smart, Single and Wealthy

Article Updated on April 15, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article reflects the personal observations and opinions of the author. While we have made light edits for clarity and readability, the perspectives...

Life Artist

Life Artist

Article Updated on April 15, 2026

Editor’s Note This article was contributed by a reader and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the author. The views expressed are solely those...

The Latest Trend Dating a Foreigner

The Latest Trend: Dating a Foreigner

Article Updated on April 15, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was originally published in The Jakarta Post and reflects the personal observations and opinions of the author at the time of...

Warning for Naïve Male Expatriates

Warning for Naïve Male Expatriates

Article Updated on April 16, 2026

“Dear Aida, I wonder if you can write an article regarding this matter. I believe that it would be helpful for foreigners to be warned...

Hash in Hell

Hash in Hell

Article Updated on March 12, 2026

When I arrived at Makassar (on the island of Sulawesi, Indonesia) the place presented itself as a city of lies, false spouses, would-be-hookers and real...

Indonesian Ghost Story

Ghosts or Ghos-sips

Article Updated on April 16, 2026

Superstition, facts and fantasy are all very common topics of daily chit-chat about life in the metropolitan city of Jakarta. Real stories from Jakarta’s own...

Special Service, Mister

Special Service, Mister?

Article Updated on April 16, 2026

Editor’s note: For many newcomers to Indonesia, experiences such as visiting a spa or massage center can be confusing. While traditional massage has deep cultural...

The Stadium Club

The Stadium

Article Updated on April 15, 2026

The Stadium Nightclub in Jakarta The Stadium nightclub in Jakarta is no longer operating as a club. Located in the Hayam Wuruk area, The Stadium...

Strange Encounters in Medan by A Singaporean

Strange Encounters in Medan by A Singaporean

Article Updated on April 15, 2026

Struggling with Bahasa Indonesia I have been in Medan for almost two years now. It’s been quite an interesting cultural shock compared to life in...

Organised Chaos!

Organised Chaos!

Article Updated on June 1, 2026

Editor’s Note: This story was originally contributed by Gaby Schilders sharing her first impressions of daily transportation and traffic life in Surabaya. While many of...

Mike's Missing Underpants

Mike’s Missing Underpants

Article Updated on June 3, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article is a personal expatriate story that captures one of the many cultural beliefs and urban legends that expatriates may encounter while...

Wimps and Woofs

Wimps and Woofs

Article Updated on June 9, 2026

Are you mostly wimp, or mostly woof? What separates the two is their choice of tea or coffee as most-preferred-beverage. The wimps, of course, drink...

Bali Shopping Frenzy for Kids - Itinerary Idea

Bali Shopping Frenzy for Kids – Itinerary Idea

Article Updated on June 23, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was originally written by Laetitia Knight in 2011 and reflects her personal experience shopping for children’s clothing, toys, books, and gifts...

Kids You Don't Love

Kids You Don’t Love

Article Updated on June 11, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was contributed by a reader of Living in Indonesia and reflects the author’s personal experiences and observations about raising children while...

You Know You’re a Bule With a Mission If You…

You Know You’re a Bule With a Mission If You…

Article Updated on June 16, 2026

Editor’s Note: This humorous article reflects stereotypes and observations about a particular segment of Indonesia’s expatriate community during the late 1990s and early 2000s. It...

Jakarta Canine Nightingales

Jakarta Canine Nightingales

Article Updated on June 4, 2026

Editor’s Note: This story was written by an expatriate contributor and reflects a personal experience of living in Jakarta during an earlier period. While Jakarta’s...

Web Poll 1-Dipper in The Bak Mandi

Web Poll 1 – Dipper in The Bak Mandi: Is it polite?

Article Updated on June 3, 2026

Editor’s Note: For readers unfamiliar with traditional Indonesian bathrooms, many homes and guesthouses once featured a bak mandi—a large water storage container used for bathing...

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