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Expat Stories

Culture shock, driving lessons gone wrong, first trips to the post office—real expats share the honest, unpolished stories of what living in Indonesia is really like.

Every expat’s journey to Indonesia looks a little different. This page is a collection of expat stories shared by real members of our community — foreigners who have lived in, worked in, or relocated to Indonesia and were generous enough to write about it. Some describe the culture shock of their very first weeks in Jakarta, others reflect on learning to drive on Indonesian roads, navigating the post office, buying a car, or simply adjusting to daily life far from home. Whatever the topic, these expat experiences offer a personal, honest window into what living in Indonesia is actually like, beyond the practical guides and relocation checklists you’ll find elsewhere on this site.

These stories are contributed pieces, written from the author’s own point of view, so they reflect one person’s experience rather than official advice — but that’s exactly what makes them worth reading. Whether you’re a newly arrived expat trying to make sense of your first year in Indonesia or a long-time resident who still remembers what it felt like to land here for the first time, we think there’s something valuable in hearing how others found their footing. If you have your own story about life as an expat in Indonesia — a memorable first impression, a lesson learned the hard way, or an experience that shaped how you see the country — we’d love to hear it. Get in touch with us, and we’ll gladly review your submission and, in most cases, share it here for the rest of the community to enjoy.

Latest Stories

Sulawesi Cough Medicine

Obat Batuk Di Sulawesi – Sulawesi Cough Medicine

Article Published on June 9, 2016

A few years ago I headed over to Sulawesi for an unstructured tour. Along my random way I found myself in Palopo, a seaport in...

Dear Everyone - A letter home from Juerg

Dear Everyone – A letter home from Juerg

Article Updated on July 7, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article is a humorous personal letter written by an expatriate reflecting on his experiences living in Jakarta in the early 2000s. It...

mike myself and i

Mike, Myself and I

Article Updated on August 11, 2026

Editor’s Note: This humorous opinion piece by Ani Greensbury reflects the author’s personal observations and experiences living in Indonesia. Written as satire, it deliberately exaggerates...

You Know You've Gone Native When

You Know You’ve Gone Native When …

Article Updated on June 4, 2026

Editor’s Note: The following light-hearted list was contributed by readers and long-term expatriates living in Indonesia. It is intended as humorous reflection on the cultural...

Angel in Trouble

Angel in Trouble

Article Published on September 19, 2015

Just a sample of what can go wrong if you don’t know the laws of Indonesia regarding your children’s legal status… Movie Star Ayu Azhari...

Another Lame Excuse

Split Personality: Another Lame Excuse

Article Updated on July 20, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was originally written as a satirical commentary on people who use “split personality” as an excuse for irresponsible behaviour. Since it...

My Snakes and I

My Snakes and I

Article Updated on July 22, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article is a personal essay originally written by Aida Greenbury and first published in The Jakarta Post. It reflects the author’s personal...

Kemang From Clay Pots to Hotspots

Kemang: From Clay Pots to Hotspots

Article Updated on June 5, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was originally written by Aida Greenbury and reflects her personal observations and opinions about Kemang at the time it was written....

Aida's Fan Mail

Aida’s Fan Mail

Article Published on June 3, 2015

I think your articles are great, funny and topical. I always enjoy reading them and I often forward them to my friends. Can I suggest...

Valentine's Day Why Does It Have to Be Pink

Valentine’s Day: Why Does It Have to Be Pink?

Article Updated on July 31, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article is a humorous opinion piece by Aida Greenbury and reflects the author’s personal perspective and observations. It was originally written as...

You Know You've Been in Indonesia Too Long If ...

You Know You’ve Been in Indonesia Too Long If …

Article Published on April 16, 2015

When after every sentence you say … Iyaaahh! You too believe traffic lanes, stop signs and one way streets are mere suggestions and that sidewalks...

Low Tech in a High Tech World

Low Tech in a High Tech World

Article Published on January 26, 2015

Editor’s Note: This article was contributed by expatriate writer Susan McKinley and was originally published in Kem Chicks World magazine. While Indonesia has changed dramatically...

While I Was Having My Hair Done...

While I Was Having My Hair Done…

Article Published on September 16, 2014

Every time I have my hair pulled back in a ponytail style, it doesn’t mean that I enjoy showing off my receding hairline. It actually...

Portraits of Our Kids - Part 2

Portraits of Our Kids – Part 2

Article Published on June 8, 2014

Most of us would agree, one of the best things about being married to an Indonesian … is the wonderful kids we create! Share your...

it was my fault

It Was My Fault 2

Article Published on June 17, 2013

I drive in Jakarta. In October 1994, after an unbelievable four rear-endings that month (I brake for kids) in which the first words out of...

Lady in the Bus

Een Lady in the Bus

Article Updated on July 18, 2026

She has such a nice nose. But isnt’ it strange ….. having a foreigner sitting next to you all of a sudden………. Excuse me sir?…………...

Why Indonesian Cats Don’t Have Tails

Why Indonesian Cats Don’t Have Tails

Article Published on July 8, 2012

It’s amazing how many times this subject has come up on the Expat Forum. We’ve saved a number of the postings over the years …...

Culture Shock or Just an Old Gitt

Culture Shock or Just an Old Git?

Article Published on August 10, 2011

At the age of twenty-six, I had little idea where I was heading in life. I had clung onto the rebellious, don’t care attitude that...

Being Equal or Simply Being Trashy

Being Equal or Simply Being Trashy?

Article Updated on June 30, 2026

Editor’s Note: This opinion column by Aida Greenbury reflects one individual’s personal views on gender roles, sexuality, and relationships at the time it was written....

Jakarta Inside Out

Jakarta Inside Out

Article Updated on June 24, 2026

Jakarta Inside Out is unlike any other book on the Indonesian capital. Written by Daniel Ziv, it offers an honest, humorous and contemporary snapshot of...

The Quick Fix

The Quick Fix

Article Published on June 25, 2010

As you all may know by now (since some of this information is written in my other articles) I was born and spent most of...

Stories of Credit Card Fraud in Indonesia

Stories of Credit Card Fraud in Indonesia

Article Updated on April 17, 2026

Editor’s Note: The following stories have been shared by our readers over time. They are not intended to alarm you, but rather to raise awareness...

Café Au Lait: the Favourite Flavour in the Glam Industry

Café Au Lait: the Favourite Flavour in the Glam Industry

Article Updated on July 16, 2026

Editor’s Note: When Aida Greenbury wrote this article, mixed-heritage (“Indo”) children were still relatively uncommon in Indonesia and often attracted significant public attention. Today, Indonesia...

What's a Sweet Boy Like You Doing in a Sleazy Place Like This

What’s a Sweet Boy Like You Doing in a Sleazy Place Like This?

Article Updated on July 22, 2026

Editor’s Note: This article was written in the early 2000s and reflects Jakarta at that time, including the prices, locations, and social conditions described. While...

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